How I shop for my capsule wardrobe
Tips and tricks to building a sustainable & minimal wardrobe
In my early 20’s, clothes shopping was a hobby.
I spent hours trawling through high street clothes stores or scrolling online. Purely from boredom most of the time. I certainly didn’t need any more clothes to pack into my overstuffed wardrobe.
Fast forward a few years and this couldn’t be more different. I tackle clothes shopping with military precision and every purchase is very intentional.
I’ve finally found a method that means I still enjoy shopping, but I end up with clothes that I actually benefit from and suit my values and lifestyle. This is the method I wanted to share with you today.
Remove temptation
Browsing is lethal.
Mindlessly scrolling through clothes never ends well. No matter how strong I think my willpower is, I’m needlessly putting myself into an uncomfortable position where I feel I need something that hadn’t even crossed my mind before.
I’ve made my life easier by cutting browsing out of my life. I have strict rules, such as unsubscribing for marketing emails and removing shopping apps from my phone, which has made this far more manageable. I highly recommend tracking any triggers that lead to mindless browsing and cutting them out where possible. It’s a real gamechanger.
Create a style manifesto and clothes list
Finding my style took years or trial and error, but it was so worth the effort. You can watch my latest YouTube video on how I found my authentic style here.
Now, I have a style manifesto, that has a few simple reminders of what I should look for when shopping for my wardrobe. This ranges from where I shop to the type, fit and colour of an item.
I use this manifesto to make my yearly clothes list. This is a detailed list of items which I rigorously stick to.
Shopping windows
I tend to shop seasonally, with 2-4 shopping windows a year, rather than buying clothes all year round.
A create a budget for each window and try my best to stick to this. Shopping seasonal means that I can spot any gaps and make sure my wardrobe is fully stocked before the weather changes.
You can change these windows to interims that suit you.
Second hand first
When it actually comes to buying clothes, I always try and shop second hand first. This is the most sustainable way to add clothes to my wardrobe and means my limited budget stretches further.
I do most of my clothes shopping online. My preferred second hand option is Depop but I also check out Ebay, especially if my favourite brands have their own Ebay outlets e.g., Seasalt.
I make sure that my searches are specific and try and stick to items from higher quality brands that I’ve previously bought from.
Ideally, I buy from sites where returns are possible (e.g., Ebay outlets) and stick to lower risk items that are much more likely to fit e.g., jumpers as opposed to shoes that rarely fit!
Use a sustainable brand directory
Over the years, I’ve curated a list of go to brands that meet my values, style and budget. If I can’t get an item second hand, then I turn to my brand directory to search out the items on my clothes list.
Some of my favourite sustainable brands are -
Final checks
Once I receive an item, it has to pass a series of tests before its actually accepted into my wardrobe.
This includes making sure it fits properly, appears high quality and I can pair it with multiple items in my existing wardrobe. I’ve accepted that no clothing is perfect, but I need to rate it at least an 8 out of 10 before I’m satisfied.
That’s it! It sounds quite intense, but over time this has become habit and I can speed through these steps fairly quickly. If you're interested, you can watch my full capsule wardrobe tour on my YouTube here.
I’d love to hear your shopping tips or any brands you enjoy, so please do drop a comment below.
Until next week
Molly xx
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Hey Molly, apologies in advance for the long message 😂
Over the past 18 months due to health issues I have lost a lot of weight and didn’t buy anything at all until I was left with nothing apart from a a few singlets and some stuff that just swum on me.
I have started buying and building a sustainable wardrobe; created a look & feel on Pinterest to curate my style; however I’ve found that now I’ve purchased quite a few things I am struggling to stop. I’m having this dopamine hit (at least I think that’s what it is) and Ive had a shopping addiction in the past and I am aware I have a really addictive personality; but then when I started shopping and building it’s like a cascade of feeling like it’s not enough I guess? Maybe this is because it hasn’t been done slowly - but quite rapid? I’m not sure 🤷🏻♀️
Right now I’m struggling and grappling with those urges to purchase ‘one more thing’ or ‘I still need or want’ or even seeing someone else’s sustainable wardrobe wishing you had some of their pieces!! I’ve completely deleted Instagram and jumped in that deep end as it just made me feel awful and I was off it until recently the last 3 months and it’s just pulled me back into all those bad habits of comparison (stealer of joy!)
I’m feeling incredibly guilty and have spent ALOT of money not aligned with my values of going slow; living intentionally; and things my husband and I are working towards (financial freedom and savings etc). I felt like I was beyond this and then bam I’m back into the rat race and this extreme uncomfortable feeling. I guess I feel I’ve failed myself; my husband; and I was feeling like I was getting good at letting go; being intentional and mindful but then I’ve backslid into really bad habits and now sitting in this awful discomfort of shame, guilt, looking at our savings sad, and also feeling like I still have this adrenaline to just buy more because of how I’m feeling (HOW CRAZY IS THAT 🤯)
It’s been really frustrating me. I have committed to not purchasing anything else for 6 months - hard rule for me I think until I need some new things for the season of warmer weather.
Do you have any suggestions and advice and tips?
Do you have a rule where you only have so many items in your wardrobe to keep you accountable?
Anyone else reading - feel free to chime in
Thanks lovely people and sorry for the rant 💜💜
Have been following your Youtube channel and now subscribed here, really love your work and what you are building and creating!