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Cha's avatar

'Nature had taught me to let go of my preconceptions and look again', I love that. I'm an ecologist who is terrified of came toads so I completely know how you feel!

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Molly Ella's avatar

Love hearing from a fellow ecologist! :)

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Gillian McMurray's avatar

Oh my goodness! The early part of your moth story sounds like a traumatic experience. I'm glad it helped change your mind though. Although I like moths now, I had that terrible fear as a child and would hide under the bedclothes if there was one in my bedroom. Now I catch them in my hands to put them outside. Isn't it funny how our perceptions can change like that?

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Molly Ella's avatar

It really is! :)

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Choosing Peace's avatar

What a beautiful piece of writing again Molly. My grandchildren were terrified of spiders in the garden until I started giving them names and making up little stories about how they would help us in the garden and then go home for tea with their families!

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Molly Ella's avatar

Oh I love that, what a wonderful idea! :)

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Shanjitha's avatar

Nature teaches us so much. Loved your moth story.

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Molly Ella's avatar

Thank you lovely :)

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Bonnie Radcliffe's avatar

I love this! As I read, a moth (I think!) actually bumped up against my window!

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Molly Ella's avatar

Aw well that is perfect timing! :)

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Kara Grant's avatar

This is so lovely! On a smaller scale I relate to becoming obsessed with moths. Well, one type. I've spotted Cinnabar moths in my garden and they absolutely delight me! When I read up online about them I was fascinated. I even drew one :)

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Molly Ella's avatar

That sounds like a lovely encounter! :)

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Caroline Simmill's avatar

I used to be afraid of Daddy Long Legs as a child as there were so many of them in our home, they would even be on the staircase! These days I look for them, in spite of having a wild garden I have noticed that come late summer early autumn there are not as many as there used to be. I did enjoy reading your story Molly and so glad you find moths fascinating now!

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Molly Ella's avatar

I will keep my eyes peeled for daddy long legs! :)

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K.J. Wilsdon's avatar

Me too! Like Molly and the moths, Daddy Long legs are too unpredictable. And they often look like they are dead. I think I need to learn more about them.

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Caroline Simmill's avatar

I have been on the look out for the Daddy Long legs and there were just a few that flew into the house, but still not that many about! Hope you see some that are alive and well, even though with these cold nights I am not sure they will be about now.

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K.J. Wilsdon's avatar

I’ll keep looking but it’s getting cold in Scotland.

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Savita Gupta's avatar

I am petrified of snakes😵‍💫

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